Domain666/5G are my SSIDs.; Domain665 too, but thats another router in the basement so not important in this case.
RPi's are b/g/n/ac, before this issue I had them on 5GHz, and I plan to return them to 5GHz if possible.
Thanks for the explanation; I wasn't aware of prime channels, I thought they were all equal.
In the above pictures I had set the 2.4 to N only and 40MHz, in this picture I changed control channel to 3; bigger picture attached, hope you can see it better.
For 5GHz I had set the bandwidth to 80MHz in the picture above.
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While sticking to the 3 channel rule/guidline , I've always found best range and preformace when using a control channel that matched the weakest station with the least congestion and overlap.
When 2 stations are on the same control channel they will try to co-exist and have better luck doing so this way as opposed to using the next channel
The "neighbors" you have showing appear to be using channels 1, 6 & 11.
Good for them. Knowingly, or not, they are being good wifi neighbors.
By using an overlapping adjacent channel or one between what they are using, their signals appear as noise on your network.
It's not on the same control channel so there is NO cooperation between the stations or access points.
A good analogy is to tune an AM/FM radio to your local AM station.
Then tune the dial to the next channel/station either 10KHz up or down (one click or tap on a digital tuner).
You can still hear that station, though it isn't as clear and might be covering the weaker station from another area.
Go one more or 20 KHz off from the center of that local station.
Can you make out anything from either the station ON that channel or the strong one in your area ? probably not, or not reliably.
When using the same control channel as the weakest one available you can both send and receive between each others "gaps".
When one station is using the very next available frequency/channel BOTH stations cause interference with each other causing disconnects from the clients also getting this interference..
2.4GHz WiFi should only really be considered to have 3 channels. The 3 (20MHz slices) that don't overlap or cause inteference. 1,6 & 11.
By using different control channels from your neighbors, on overlapping channels, you are getting AND causing interference.
By having 20MHZ neighbors on 1 & 6, when you set yours to control channel 3 you are getting AND causing interference with no cooperation.