After more late nights, and reading through this forum... There is definitely something "funky" going on with the port forwarding... I'm anxiously waiting for a firmware update, to see if this get's straightened out. My "afore mentioned" logic still holds true, but there is some sort of "loop back" problem, so you can't really check your ports from inside the local LAN via the WAN IP address. I made sure that none of my network devices are using port 80, as to not conflict, but it still even acts weird with other unassigned port numbers as well. I REALLY like this router, but I hope it get's fixed soon, cause that's kind of a "major" deal. Aside from that, The wireless performance is freakin awesome! I haven't tried the VPN function, or the USB yet. I'm trying to get the fundamentals worked out. I have a personal Windows server 2012 and am using domain controller services. I also plan on using IIS, and FTP services through the server.
There is still LOTS of configuration to do, but I get these fundamental issues resolved first, so I'm sort of in a "holding pattern". My network "could be" awesome. *sigh*
Maybe Merlin will come up with something first.
On another note... Windows 8.1 comes out today, as well as Server 2012 R2. I'm ringing my hands with anticipation. I feel "dastardly"...
"Oh... VPN" I think I've got wood...