Then I'd be interested in the output of these commands just as you are now without FlexQoS:
Code:
nvram get bwdpi_app_rulelist
cat /tmp/bwdpi/qosd.conf
tc class show dev br0 | grep "parent 1:1 "
tc class show dev eth0 | grep "parent 1:1 "
tc filter show dev br0 | grep -A1 "flowid 1:1"
tc filter show dev eth0 | grep -A1 "flowid 1:1"
It'll be a lot of lines in total, so a pastebin would be better than trying to paste it in a post.
Then if you're moved in any way to test FlexQoS again, run the script with the debug parameter to see what's going wrong.