All good - advice I provided is not "fear mongering" but intended for the better...
Anyways - RMerlin's firmware builds are pretty solid, as are the factory builds for the most part - and Asus, I've been hinted here on the forums, is going down a different path perhaps...
As for me - I'm a ex-developer/systems engineer/product dev/architect guy, and have self-funded something entirely
new...
So you can do padovan or whatever... perhaps DDWRT or OpenWRT are your friends here...
But do not call me a fear monger for stating basic advice that most should consider...