What is the complete output of
iptables-save
, if you do not see a wan facing iptable rule showing port 53 open to inbound traffic (or an inbound port 53 traffic accept rule), then you are fine. That means anyone trying to access port 53 from wan side (or outside your network) will be dropped by the firewall with the rest of unsolicited inbound wan traffic. Just because a program or app listens on an interface does not mean that it is not blocked from wan side solicitation. There are multiple angles to understanding this stuff. You can't just run a netstat and assume you are in danger of unsolicited traffic breaking through. You need to check your firewall. Or even try to access it your self via your WanIp address from outside your network. If you are met by bad answers, then you are being dropped by your firewall while you try solicited traffic via wan side.
I also want to challenge you, please review my shell scripts. I am curious to see if you can find any line of code that mentions I open your port 53 via the firewall. Look for any lines of code where i invoke your firewall to wan side.
The Official Installer of AdGuardHome for Asuswrt-Merlin - jumpsmm7/Asuswrt-Merlin-AdGuardHome-Installer
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