Some answers...and even more puzzles:
Ping from the server to the router:
"#ping 192.168.200.2
PING 192.168.200.2 (192.168.200.2) 56(84) bytes of data.
^C
--- 192.168.200.2 ping statistics ---
9 packets transmitted, 0 received, 100% packet loss, time 8000ms
#"
Hence ping from server to router FAILS
and
"Phoenix@RT-AC86U-6150:/tmp/home/root# ping 192.168.200.210 - this is another server on the same network
PING 192.168.200.210 (192.168.200.210): 56 data bytes
64 bytes from 192.168.200.210: seq=0 ttl=64 time=0.727 ms
64 bytes from 192.168.200.210: seq=1 ttl=64 time=0.770 ms
64 bytes from 192.168.200.210: seq=2 ttl=64 time=0.895 ms
64 bytes from 192.168.200.210: seq=3 ttl=64 time=0.632 ms
64 bytes from 192.168.200.210: seq=4 ttl=64 time=0.707 ms
^C
--- 192.168.200.210 ping statistics ---
5 packets transmitted, 5 packets received, 0% packet loss
round-trip min/avg/max = 0.632/0.746/0.895 ms
Phoenix@RT-AC86U-6150:/tmp/home/root# ping 192.168.200.98
PING 192.168.200.98 (192.168.200.98): 56 data bytes
^C
--- 192.168.200.98 ping statistics ---
8 packets transmitted, 0 packets received, 100% packet loss
Phoenix@RT-AC86U-6150:/tmp/home/root#"
Hence ping from router to server FAILS
So the server can't ping the router, and the router can't ping the server, though the client can ping the router, and its not its not a server firewall issue because ping from the server is establishing outgoing sessions, not trying to break through the server firewall.....yes, the server does have a firewall. I need to check this out, but changing the router either fixes or breaks the connection, so its something I should be able to fix inside the router.
"From the router you can't ping the server's LAN IP address - Can you ping any other IP addresses on your LAN?" Yes, the router pings both other servers OK, see the output above, ping to ....210
and "
Wan: Use local caching DNS server as system resolver (default: No)" is set to "no"
The weirdness centres around this inability of the router to ping the server or the server to ping the router, though pings from clients go straight through the router to the server, so its something about the router's inability to handle pings to/from it though it handles pings as transit traffic....once that is fixed, the router should be able to see the server for traffic other than pings and send it corrrectly, something it refuses to do now.