so it seems the iphones, ipads, and other wifi adapters in the home don't have 160mhz. I forgot my motherboard had integrated wifi, and I disabled my ethernet and connected using the Intel AC 9560. This is with whatever outdated drivers windows auto installed, and without the external antenna connected at all.
speedtest.net posted 562/
839 Mbps - my desktop's built-in wifi card at the top.
The thing I immediately noticed in the wireless logs area is that this is the
only device so far that has connected at 160Mhz. So clearly the router is working fine achieving those speeds. I just need more advanced clients connecting to this to see faster speeds. Phew. That's good.
I thought I would of had more devices with 160MHz capabilities, I guess not. Thanks Apple. LOL I'll look to upgrade my wife's system with a better ax adapter to get better use out of the network though.