lluke
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C, then P for that part of your question.
Not sure about the first question, someone will hopefully answer correctly, but I believe it might be the accept-routes switch (TBC) which you can enable using a Custom cmd line.
Currently you select C, 3, 3, then you go e, y, it does a down / restart and then it will ask you about customizing settings. Then you can modify one or more of the 4 lines.
I'm facing the same challenge here.
You should definitely customize the Connection Commandline to accept routes by adding "-accept-routes=true" at the end of the command.
The issue then is that you'll be able to connect to any of the devices on the other side of the tunnel from the router (you can test it through a ping from the router to a machine in the other site subnet) but the routes will not be published for the other devices in your network.
I'm trying to understand how to route the traffic to the proper Subnet routes given the connected nodes to the Tailscale network, but I'm currently stuck on that.