Yes I got the same deal on iftop and any other bandwidth console utility on the ac66u, hence my statement about using the -tee option with iptables. Iftop worked great on my RTN16 so I'm a little disappointed in that.
Even if you don't write your own qos tree using lartc.org, you more than likely can still use a mixture of the show commands from that guide to verify things are working properly.
I would just install a Ubuntu virtual machine and -tee your traffic to that virtual IP address. Not only can you use iftop, you could also install the prepackaged ntop
http://goo.gl/wDlvq for even more stats. Traffic monitoring on the ac66u is very poor since none of the optware utilities really work.
I posted my old qos tree if you want to try it. This is "entire router has max of 2048kbit, anything marked 30 has max 1120kbit, anything marked 20 has max 600kbit". The marked packets can never use more than the total bandwidth, works great for FPS gaming while several dozen torrents are running.
ip link set imq0 up
tc qdisc del dev imq0 root
tc qdisc add dev imq0 root handle 1: htb
tc class add dev imq0 parent 1: classid 1:1 htb rate 2048kbit
tc class add dev imq0 parent 1:1 classid 1:10 htb rate 1120kbit ceil 1120kbit
tc class add dev imq0 parent 1:10 classid 1:30 htb rate 1120kbit ceil
1120kbit prio 3
tc qdisc add dev imq0 parent 1:30 handle 30: sfq perturb 10
tc class add dev imq0 parent 1:10 classid 1:20 htb rate 600kbit ceil
600kbit prio 4
tc qdisc add dev imq0 parent 1:20 handle 20: sfq perturb 10
tc filter add dev imq0 parent 1:0 prio 3 protocol ip handle 30 fw flowid 1:30
tc filter add dev imq0 parent 1:0 prio 4 protocol ip handle 20 fw flowid 1:20
iptables -t mangle -A PREROUTING -p tcp -s 192.168.1.164 --sport 80 -j
MARK --set-mark 30
iptables -t mangle -A PREROUTING -p tcp -s 192.168.1.185 -j MARK --set-mark 20
iptables -t mangle -A PREROUTING -j IMQ --todev 0
So, iftop looked fine, but some way it seems to crash the router after a 5-10 seconds
I really don't care if I lose a little bandwidth when I get 100 Mpbs fiber (I'm used to 6 Mbps ADSL), it's more important that file transfers and gaming won't kill the phone.