i do some test and it seems only working with full speed when you flash from a working old firmware.
so i go back to
aimesh router merlin 386.3_2 and aimesh nodes leave on 3.0.0.4.386_48262 = 450 mbps
aimesh router merlin 386.3_2 and aimesh nodes 386.3_2 = 950 mbps
flash from 386.3_2 to 3.0.0.4.386_48262 still on 950 mbps
when you now make a factory reset you got stuck back on 450mbps
so it seems like it takes some old configurations from 386.3_2
RT-AC3100_386.5_2.trx merlin is the same
so i go back to
aimesh router merlin 386.3_2 and aimesh nodes leave on 3.0.0.4.386_48262 = 450 mbps
aimesh router merlin 386.3_2 and aimesh nodes 386.3_2 = 950 mbps
flash from 386.3_2 to 3.0.0.4.386_48262 still on 950 mbps
when you now make a factory reset you got stuck back on 450mbps
so it seems like it takes some old configurations from 386.3_2
RT-AC3100_386.5_2.trx merlin is the same