Ok, this is impressive.
My router used to run at 85% RAM usage using Adaptive QoS and FreshJR. That would creep up to 90s, and then eventually need a reboot at some point.
After uninstalling FrshJR, disabling Adaptive, and running Cake, my RAM usage would be around 70-75%. That seemed pretty nice, but I was waiting to see if that crept up like before.
I decided to withdraw my permission to all the Trend services last night, and I looked at the router this morning, and it is happily churning along at 61% RAM usage. Wow, that's a big difference.
I have switched from besteffort to the default diffserv3 now as well, and getting similar Bufferbload results. I am still evaluating how the three tins will manage the traffic as I work from home today
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